How the Kung fu spirit can help you achieve your New Year’s resolutions

The title of this blog isn’t necessarily suggesting that you should set a goal to study Chinese martial arts (although it is a fun and practical way to improve your health and fitness); it’s suggesting that you put in the time and effort necessary to achieve the positive transformations you desire in the New Year.

photo by Tomasz Gudzowaty

photo by Tomasz Gudzowaty

The term kung fu (or Gong fu) is a compound of two words: kung/gong (which means “work” or “achievement”) and fu (which means “effort over time”).  Taken together, kung fu refers to any skill achieved through hard work over a long period of time.  Kung fu’s association with Chinese martial arts is largely due to a Western misunderstanding of the term’s use in martial arts films.  To say someone “has good kung fu” is to say that he has put in the time and effort necessary to achieve a high level of skill.  The term can equally apply to martial arts, cooking, playing an instrument, or sports.

So how does kung fu apply to your New Year’s resolutions?

An attitude has been growing in popularity that New Year’s resolutions are a joke, because no one keeps them anyway, and so the popular resolution is not to make one.  It’s sad when we resign to wishing but never reaching, because the reality of our goals seems so far away.  This is where kung fu comes in.  Kung fu focuses on the process, not the result.  It encourages us to keep our eyes on the path and put in some time and effort every day.

As 21st century Westerners, we’ve come to expect immediate results with minimal effort.  This expectation can often discourage us when we realize that the physical and spiritual improvements we desire won’t manifest after a single dose of effort.  However, if we can embrace the attitude of kung fu and expect that our goals for transformation and growth are meant to be achieved in small increments over long periods of time, one day we will look up and realize our goal has been achieved, having forgotten it long ago, when the work needed to accomplish it became a habit.

Dharmic Awareness

Most of us are familiar with the concept of karma – the idea that our actions begin a cycle of cause and effect that eventually gets back to us.  So, if you do good deeds, the positive waves of change you create will eventually come back to you as positive experiences.  If you do bad deeds, eventually negative experiences will be your reward.  Based on this simple explanation of the Law of Karma, it seems easy enough to have a stress-free, joyous life: just be a decent human being.  But it rains on the good and bad alike, so maybe the whole idea of karma is wrong…or maybe it’s just not that simple.

It’s a part of being a living, breathing human being that we will run into challenges and hard times.  Nobody, no matter how “good,” escapes such times.  The subtlety of karma is that it has to do with the way you respond to changing circumstances in order to maintain spiritual balance, or equanimity.

At any given moment, on any given day, there is a right course of action for you so that you maintain spiritual balance and continue to grow.  That course of action is your dharma – a way of behaving that is in accord with the natural order of the universe and your place in it.  There is a time for speech and a time for silence, a time to advance and a time to remain still – and it isn’t the same for anyone.  Every situation is unique and every individual is one of a kind, so to an extent, what’s right for you today may change a bit tomorrow.  I’m not talking about the big things; I’m talking about subtleties of decision-making and interactions with others.

So if the right course of action is always changing, how do you know what to do?  The answer is dharmic awareness, and the good news is we all have it.

Dharmic awareness is that feeling you sometimes get when you know you’re about to say the wrong things, or you realize the best thing you can do for someone at that moment is listen.  Dharmic awareness is knowing the right thing to do in any given moment of your life.  It may also reveal to you the right thing to do with the rest of your life.  So if we all have dharmic awareness, why don’t we always know what the right thing to do is?  In a word – ego.  Not the ego of individual identity; not the ego of self-confidence.  Knowing who you are and feeling good about yourself is great.  The ego I’m talking about is the one that is driven by fears, desires, anxieties, and ambitions.  It’s the part of you that says “the heck with anyone else, this is what I want – or this is what I absolutely won’t stand for.”  It’s the part of you that drowns out awareness with the noise of how you want things to be.

To quiet your ego and reconnect to your dharmic awareness, you must meditate.  If sitting quietly just doesn’t work for you, moving meditations like tai chi and yoga can work just as well.  The key is to breathe and actively open your awareness.  Stay inwardly quiet and outwardly gentle and patient.  Cultivate the skill of observing your own inner processes of thought and emotion.  Be more conscious of what you do and say in your interactions with others and sensitize yourself to the effect your actions have.  Learn to see everything as waves of cause and effect rippling out from you to others and back again.  Aim to keep these ripples calm and nurturing.  Be quick to compliment and express love or appreciation, and be slow to criticize or judge.  Soon you’ll notice yourself begin to develop a sense for your right course of action that will guide you through each moment of every day.

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Internal Martial Arts, External Martial Arts, Hard Style, and Soft Style – What does it all mean?

We hear these terms so often, to describe so many different kinds of martial arts, that they begin to lose all meaning.

After many years of studying martial arts, I’ve formed specific definitions of my own. In the spirit of making terms precise enough for everyday use, I offer them to you.

I’ll start with hard style and soft style:

Darsana Martial - Hard & Soft StyleThe terms hard and soft, when relating to the martial arts, imply a way of dealing with your opponent’s force. In essence, hard styles meet their opponent’s force with force, using solid blocks, strong postures, and powerful attacks fueled by strength, mass, and speed. Soft styles on the other hand attempt to blend with their opponent’s force, using fluid movements and timing to avoid, deflect, and redirect their opponent’s attacks.

Think of hard and soft as two extremes at either end of a continuum, with hard style being a complete force meets force head-on approach, and soft style being a complete blending of forces in total harmony approach. Most styles of martial arts fall somewhere in between.

Aren’t external martial arts and internal martial arts the same as hard style and soft style? Not exactly….

External & Internal Martial Arts - Darsana

Internal martial arts, as the name implies, is focused on what’s happening inside of you: inside your body and inside your mind. An internal martial artist spends a lot of time turning his awareness inward, and cultivating sensitivity to the balance of relaxation and tension in his body. While keeping his joints aligned and his muscles relaxed, he can use his intention, his willpower, to transfer energy through his body. By energy, I mean force. Not “The Force” (as in “Use the Force, Luke”), but actual, physical force.  When this internal force is projected out, say through a palm strike, it’s called Fa jin, or explosive force.

External Martial Arts - DarsanaExternal martial arts on the other hand, focus on posture, position, technique, tactics and other…external stuff. To an external practitioner, the most important thing is how he moves in relation to his opponent. All the aspects of a system of martial arts that answer the question: “What do I do if my opponent does this?” are external aspects.

And this means…?

It means a martial artist can be an external practitioner of a soft style, an internal practitioner of a hard style, or any other combination. Personally, I think a combination of all of the above makes for the best martial arts. The hard approach breaks down against a bigger, stronger opponent. The soft approach will require some of the hard to get the job done. Internal development without external skill has no outlet, and external skill is limited to athletic ability without internal development.

The trick is to understand how each aspect compliments the others. There are a few good schools out there that strike that balance. This is one of them. Wherever you choose to train, evaluate your own practices. Ask yourself if you can enhance what you already do by adding in some aspect of the other approaches. Broaden your horizons and never stop learning.

“I have not invented a ‘new style,’ composite, modified or otherwise that is set within distinct form as apart from ‘this’ method or ‘that’ method. On the contrary, I hope to free my followers from clinging to styles, patterns, or molds.” – Bruce Lee

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What is “Martial Arts”?

If we put aside style or system, if we forget about ancient or modern, east or west, and instead simply focus on the nature of human movement, the nature of fighting, and the nature of mental, physical, and spiritual development – what is the result? The result is a process of training through which an individual can realize their greatest potential. That is what martial arts means to me.

This is not to say that there is nothing to learn from a specific style, or that one should discard traditional martial arts for modern methods. My point is to seek the universal, underlying truths which bind all martial arts together.

When I study and when I teach, I approach martial arts from the point of view of principles. Through this lens, the dividing lines that separate particular styles or techniques melt away and reveal that they are all variations on the same set of principles that underlay the function of all human actions. When you see martial arts through this lens the validity of every style or system becomes readily apparent, and each can offer valuable insight into your own pursuit of skill.

yinyangIn my own search for martial truth, I have come to see all things reduce down to one simple principle: the Taiji principle. Many people will recognize the yin-yang symbol.

That symbol is actually the Taiji symbol. The black and white halves represent yin and yang in harmony. The circle which contains them is wuji, or “no extremes.” A way to think about this principle is as the perfect harmony of complementary opposites. That is what Taiji means. In literal translation it means “supreme ultimate” and “supreme ultimate-less.” That is to say, it is the supreme ultimate principle that encompasses all things in the universe, yet is not limited by them.

Now, the question may be asked: how does this idea translate into a practical guide to action?

It starts by breaking everything up into complementary pairs: closed and open, resistance and give, present and absent, push and pull, and so on, and then work to harmonize those complementary pairs.Push and pull, for example, are employed together to create circular forces used in takedowns. The push-pull forces applied in the double leg takedown are essentially the same as those used in sumi gaeshi, only from reversed positions. One may even be used as a counter to the other, depending on who is more in control of their center, and has better timing and sensitivity.

Take Down - Darsana

Harmony of absence and presence can be seen in evade and counter tactics. Both the Wing Chun counter-kick and the slip and counter punch utilize this same principle. The opponent is striking at space. If you are absent from that space, you will not be hit. Furthermore, the opponent’s commitment to attack has fixed his position, making him unable to be absent from your counter attack. In other words, his targets are present for you to strike.

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Another example is harmony of closed and open. The Escrimador uses a parry to deflect his opponent’s thrusting blade closing one line of attack and opening another for his own cut. The same harmony is employed by the JKD practitioner using a punch to simultaneously close the line his opponent is punching down as he opens a new line for a punch of his own.

opposites-escrimador

We can see harmony of opposites in close quarter combat as well. Both chi sao practitioners and grapplers use sensitivity to identify where their opponent is resisting strongly and where his structure gives in order to slip through the gaps in his posture and apply their own force where the opponent is weakest. They harmonize with their opponent rather than struggle with him.

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Most of us can think of a moment where something we did seemed to be just barely successful, yet we did it automatically and with full confidence, as though we were in tune with all the forces at work around us and within us – total harmony. If you haven’t experienced that feeling, you’ve probably seen it while watching sports. An athlete, in the zone, did everything right just at the right moment. When this happens it seems effortless and obvious, but it takes incredible effort to develop a level of skill that makes the extraordinary seem simple and ordinary. In other words, gong fu.

In actual training, the taiji principle is expanded upon and many sub-principles are used to describe and guide actions for particular effects and circumstances. The principle does not replace the need to practice technique. It acts as a beacon to guide that practice and draw all your techniques into a single mental and physical state.

The purpose of this blog is simply to share whatever insights I may have gained during my study and practice in the martial arts. They are one man’s thoughts. That is all. I am happy if they aid you in your pursuit of skill.

“We have two hands and two legs. The important thing is: how can we use them to the maximum?” – Bruce Lee